Oh god imagine if phan really isnt real and they find stuff like this discussion, that must be so awkward for them xD
Anonymous
Well that’s why we keep this stuff hidden and don’t tell him about it xD
Do you really need to be constantly discussing their sexual activity and whether they swallow or not? like, really? Isn't this supposed to be stuff that gives you feels.. is whether or not Dan swallows something that gives you feels?
Anonymous
It’s not constantly being discussed, only recently :P
Besides, if people want to discuss it, then I’m not going to stop them hahah
It’s not cute and adorable, no, but maybe something that we figure out will bring us closer to figuring out whether or not phan is real?? I dunno
I think Dan was saying he swallows if they want it but like that would be correct even if it was only one guy
yeah it could be one guy or it could be multiple because it’s correct both ways sigh freaking confusing
i think dan put the 'they' instead of he for the swallowing formspring because a. it could mean more than one guy or b. it just makes it less personal because i feel like if he said he everyone would assume phil. I personally am going with b because i like to think dan's first with a guy was with phil =)
Anonymous
Yeah it is cute to believe that Phil was his first guy :3
although I do still think it refers to other guys, or multiple guys :/
Phil's parents house had a guest room and also had his brother's old room (which was empty when Dan came to visit as his brother had moved out) so there were two possible rooms Dan could have slept in.. however he admitted on formspring that he and Phil had slept in the same bed before phanformspring(.)tumblr(.)com/post/50327375186/i-like-to-share-beds-with-my-best-friends-have
Either way I dont think he had like full on gay sex with anyone before Phil, but maybe a little fun with other guys. Being bisexual and young and confused and lonely.. It can be pretty difficult. When you are bi, its like you are always missing something. With a girl, you miss the boys. With a boy, you miss the girls.. I actually thinks that D&P might have an open-ish relationship where they have the possibility of hooking up with girls too if they want.. Cuz I really think that Dan likes boobs.
Anonymous
Ahhh yeah I agree, and I understand what you’re saying
and he does seem kind of out of it a lot of the time when he discusses relationships and stuff, almost like he’s kind of detached? Maybe I’m just seeing it that way idk
I've always assumed that Phil was Dan's first guy but now I just don't know? I never thought about 'happy endings at sleepovers' before and it's starting to sound like a believable theory... but idk, I like to believe Phil was his first, I think it's rather cute :3
Anonymous
It is cute to believe that aww
but unfortunately I don’t think that’s quite the case :/
Are we seriously discussing their sex life now? Don't get me wrong, I'm loving it, but it really says something about our lives haha
Anonymous
I know right xD
It’s hilarious hahah
Honestly, to me Dan does seem like the cheating type, particularly drunk. Although, to be in a 3+ year commitment with someone you supposedly love and cheat on them behind their backs is insanely douche-y, moreso than I think Dan is. But, I kind of get the feeling that he wasn't in a very good place for awhile before uni, in terms of friendships and state of mind etc., and I really don't know what he would've done. Although I'm leaning towards drunken one night stands or something
Anonymous
Yeah I really am not sure, but drunken one night stands or happy-ending sleepovers seem more likely than full on cheating :/
E could have let him experiment with guys, it doesnt have to be cheating-cheating where she doesnt know and he is being a dick.. I dont think dan would cheat for real..
Anonymous
Yeah I don’t think Dan would full-on cheat on her, he did say he was in love with her after all
also because he is the sexual predator drunk he may have experimented with guys while he was drunk???
